And, yet, when these same parents talk to my oldest Heathen, they attempt to TALK HIM OUT of his choice. "Have you thought of college? You should think about going to college instead." And Heathen #1, understandably, comes homes irritated and sometimes downright angry. He knows that he has made the best choice for HIM. And he knows he has our full support.
It is with GREAT PRIDE that I announce Heathen #1 has chosen to continue to lead a life of service following high school graduation. He has chosen to join the US Navy and currently has a ship date of August 2, 2016.
The Asst. Zookeeper and I FULLY SUPPORT his choice for his future. Not only is it an excellent choice for him, but both of our families are NAVY families (with the random person in a different branch occasionally). We've raised our Heathens to serve and help others - how could we not support his choice?
And for the parents that have felt the need to ask me, "Are you okay with this?" My answer is: it really isn't MY choice. I can be a supportive Zookeeper and sign the delayed entry program papers (which I did). Or, my Heathen can turn 18 in March and sign himself - and leave wondering if his parents support his choice, if he made a good choice. No Heathen deserves to leave home with extra feelings of self doubt. Leaving home is momentous enough.
So, to the adults who feel the need to "poo-poo" my Heathen's choice of a future: mind your own business. You won't hear me ask YOUR child if they are ready for their students loans that will take them the next 30 years to pay off and aren't they worried that they won't find a job with that choice of major? You will hear me CONGRATULATE your child on their choice of a future that fits THEM.
Have the decency to give my Heathen the same courtesy, please.
Well done, Heathen. The Asst. Zookeeper and I are VERY PROUD of your choice in a future.
